Are you one of the many people who is terrified of speaking in public or are you one of the few who knows the benefits of public speaking?
It is said to be one of the most feared activities in life. According to Wikipedia, 75% of the population experiences anxiety or nervousness when speaking in public. So, if giving a speech or lecture makes you break out in a cold sweat, you are clearly not alone.
“According to most studies, people’s number one fear is public speaking. Number two is death. Death is number two. Does that sound right? This means to the average person, if you go to a funeral, you’re better off in the casket than delivering the eulogy.”
Speaking in public doesn’t have to be a nerve-wracking experience. In fact, speaking can help you build your business. But before you can become a successful public speaker you need to overcome your fear by following these three simple steps: Prepare, Practice and Present.
Write and create your presentation well in advance. Waiting until the last minute doesn’t make it easier and creates additional stress. Being done ahead of time will not only give you more time for the next step, practice, it will also help relieve your anxiety.
Stop thinking about yourself and focus on your audience. As you prepare, consider: What does my audience need? Why are they here? How can I help them? Focusing on your goals and their needs will help shift your perspective.
Practice, practice, practice. Know your presentation upside down, inside out and backwards. Don’t memorize your speech—and don’t read from a script. Once you know it well, you can use an outline with your key points highlighted to help you stay on track.
If you are using a slide presentation, don’t read it. Make your visual aids just that—aids. Use them to provide engaging illustrations and brief highlights, and then talk about your subject with your audience.
Arrive early. Running late and being rushed only builds stress and anxiety. Arriving early gives you a chance to see where you’ll be speaking, get comfortable with the space, meet and talk to a few people, and find a quiet spot to take a few deep breaths and calm yourself before you start.
It’s show time. You’ve prepared well and practiced until you know your presentation better than you know the alphabet. Just a few more tips to help you nail this one.
First, all those people in the audience—well, most of them—are just happy it’s you up there and not them. They came to see you succeed. They’re on your side and they’re rooting for you—so relax and roll with it.
Next, don’t make too much of audience expressions. People make weird faces—don’t interpret them as anything more than that. Accept that sometimes your audience will look funny and move on. Snoring may be a different story, however. . .
Finally, engage your audience—don’t talk at them, talk with them. Ask for questions and answer them. More interesting, less boring. You’re not performing, you’re conversing. Are you nervous when you’re conversing with your friends? This should feel the same way.
Keep your focus on your purpose and your audience. The more you think about them, the less time you have to think about yourself and how much you don’t want to do this. By the way, a few butterflies are good. But just a few–They are there to remind you that this is important to you.
By putting these three P’s into practice, you can overcome your fear of public speaking and become a successful public speaker.